How many times have you heard people say, “He’s gonna cheat anyway.” Honestly, take a minute. Are we all gonna accept this?? According to modern day theory, no matter what you look like, men are programmed to cheat and he will cheat on you no matter how good you treat him, how beautiful you are or how much money you give him (some of y’all are just sugar mummies, we all know it) 😂
I’m sorry but I’m not accepting that. If he cheats, kick him to the mf curb! Niggas are just living in the Instagram century (yeah, it’s a thing. Look it up). This century were the girls are the ones desperate for relationships that they see on the net. They focus so much on what a relationship is supposed to look like out there and forget what it’s like for the day in, day out.
The way I see it, it’s a catch 22. Every time he cheats, you can kick him to the curb but you’ll end up with one long list of “hims” that you kicked to the curb. You know, when go to every place and you bump into one ex or the other. If he cheats and you stay, Standard! You’ve just set the standard for the rest of your relationship. So what happens now?
I say fxck relationships. End off.
Ok maybe not. Here’s my solution. Know what you want. When you know what you want, it’s easy to eliminate the dirty and nasty.
Take time to know the person you meet and understand what they like and what ticks them off. Remember: assumptions are the biggest mofos in life.
What do you think?